Saturday, May 14, 2011

Is Your Man Gay? by Tonja Ayers

Is Your Man Gay?

Is Your Man Gay? by Tonja Ayers

Book Details

Paperback: 57 pages

  • Publisher: Emperial Publishing; First edition (March 3, 2011)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1450761941
  • ISBN-13: 978-1450761949
  • Source:  Author sent to me for review

About The Book

It has been brought to my attention that many women are suffering silently in their romantic relationships regarding the sexuality of their male counterparts. I have owned a women's shoe store in Detroit, Michigan for over a decade and I can not count how many times a woman has voiced this concern to me. Many women have poured their hearts out to me regarding their personal lives and homosexuality is the number two concern following infidelity. I decided to write a series of books regarding the most popular topics discussed at my shoe store. My first book, A Ho Needs 2 Stay in a Ho s Place was pretty much a satirical piece as Is Your Man Gay? was going to be. However, when I began to conduct research for the book, I was astonished by the AIDS related statistics and decided that this is not a joke. If one person reads this book and takes what I have said seriously then I have accomplished my goal. I can not tell you if your man is gay however I have put together a handbook which should provide you with enough information for you to make your own decision. After reading this book, you should be able to look yourself in the mirror and ask yourself, Is Your Man Gay?

About the Author

 Tonja Ayers

Businesswoman and retail career coach, Tonja Ayers can now add successful self-help author to her list of credits. As one of Detroit s most sought-after entrepreneurs, she has spent years coaching and advising many eager novices on the appropriate steps to opening a business, prompting her to finally write her handbook, How to Start Your Own Business. The book offers proven methods in an easy to follow format, listing the ten key components Ms. Ayers believes are critical to making a mark in the commercial and retail arenas. Many people want to open a business, but lack the knowledge of how to get it up and running, she says. This book provides a road map for the inexperienced entrepreneur. As a result of her many successful ventures, Ms. Ayers has become a personal confidante to her regular clients. Her landmark shoe store, The Shoe Lady, has been in existence for nearly fifteen years, serving greater Detroit and the surrounding area. During this time, many customers have sought her counsel not only on fashion but also on personal issues such as life, love and relationships. Sharing some of their most private concerns, Ms. Ayers decided to fill what she perceived as a void in her community with regard to useful information and sound advice. In response to the repeated topic of infidelity, Ms. Ayers wrote A Ho Needs 2 Stay in a Ho s Place, a guide for women whose partners have strayed which lists effective ways of coping with the problem of the other woman. The book was an immediate hit, inspiring Ms. Ayers to continue on her mentoring path with her latest release, Is Your Man Gay? Through her encouraging, common-sense approach, her goal is to educate women on difficult topics while empowering them to be secure, motivated and independent. Tonja Ayers holds a degrees in Business Administration & Business Management and is based in Southfield, Michigan. (source: Amazon)

My Review:
I've really never read a book quite like this one.  After all, if someone saw me reading this book with the title "Is Your Man Gay?", they might wonder if I am reading thinking my man is gay.  No, not the case at all.  This book was sent to me for review by Tonja Ayers.

If you think your man may be gay though, you really might want to pick this book up!  The author states, and I agree, that there is nothing wrong with being a gay man.  To each his own.  This book is targeting the gay man that has a significant other that is female and is lying to her about who he really is.   Read this book to find out the signs that your man may be gay.  The author also brings up the subject of HIV/Aides and why a gay man might have picked you to be with.

If you are questioning your man's sexual preference, or if you are just looking for a quick book that is very entertaining, you definitely want to pick up this book!  I was very entertained and learned a lot from this book as well!  

  My Rating: 5/5 diamonds - Loved it and highly recommend!

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Disclaimer: I was not compensated for my review. My thoughts on this book were in no way influenced by the author or publicist. They are my personal reflections based solely on MY experience while reading this novel.

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  1. Nope, my man isn't gay....and I would know for sure.

  2. enjoyed reading about the author and her books. good post!!